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  • The Gay Bachelor Winners!!!

    The Gay Bachelor Round 2 ended yesterday, and we kept everyone in suspense on who Sammy Crawford would choose. Would he pick the community favorite or someone of his own liking? Well, Sammy has announced who he would like to accompany on his romantic weekend in New York, and he has chosen…

     Dan Fitts!

    Congratulations, guys! This game was a great success and we wanna thank everyone for playing, and who knows, maybe you could be the next Gay Bachelor!

  • The Gay Bachelor: Sammy Crawford Q&A

    What are you hoping to do while in New York?


    There’s a lot to see, I know, and I’ll have to make a lot of tough choices in that respect.  I truly want to “feel” the real vibe of the city, though, rather than just seeing a bunch of tourist spots.  I want to be a part of the electricity in the air that I know will be present.  I want to take it in as if it is all that exists in the world, for just a few days.

    What do you hope to happen in result from the weekend?

    I am already certain that I will take away with me memories and perhaps inspiration for some new music!  Beyond that, I know that I will meet some people who will be a part of my life from that point forward.  It is these connections that are truly the most amazing thing about travel.

    How have your friends and family responded about you winning The Gay Bachelor?

    They are very excited!  My friends are thrilled, of course.  My mother has told a lot of people, which makes me realize even more how supportive my family has been every step of the way.

    Are there any specific things that would make this weekend a “dream weekend” for you?

    A “dream weekend” for me would be one that I am still hopeful enough in this life to believe possible:  My date and I would have an amazing time, and we would know there would be more times together.

    Has The Gay Bachelor made you more confident or made you look at the dating scene differently since winning?

    I have become more confident, yes.  I have gained such confidence by choosing to have it, though; the contest only presents an opportunity.  I am learning a lot about myself, as my experiences with people have run the gamut from upsetting to downright beautiful.  What I see differently now is an important notion for me:  I know I am not perfect, but I can show up in someone’s life “as is” and still have the courage to make great strides toward becoming stronger on the inside.  When I see this in someone else, it is something that I admire greatly.  I would want that in a partner.

  • The Gay Bachelor: Dan Fitts



    I believe Sammy should pick me because he sounds like an intriguing, intelligent, handsome, and fun guy.  I think we have a good deal in common.


    I look forward to getting to know him and having a great together time in the Big Apple.


    Vote for Dan here.

  • The Gay Bachelor Round #2: Interview Question

    If you want to win a dream date with The Gay Bachelor, Sammy Crawford, answer the below question via email to Christopher@fabulis.com (including your fabulis url and a pic in the email) or make a video and send the YouTube or Vimeo link (with you fabulis url) to Christopher@fabulis.com. 

    Contestants who answer this question will receive an extra 10,000 bits (to help yourself win!). 20,000 bits for submitting a video!

    The question:

    Why should Sammy pick you?

  • The Gay Bachelor: Dan Fitts



     Why should you be The Gay Bachelor? 
    I should be The Gay Bachelor because I am fabulis, fierce, and I own it.  I’m handsome and witty and I am the perfect representative for the brand.

    What do you look for in other guys? 
    Good looks (I admit it), great communication…someone who is caring and sensitive…masculine but not afraid of his feminine side either.  I love a guy with a great sense of humor, good sense of style, and who knows how to have fun.

    What is your idea of a dream first date?

    A romantic dinner together with enthralling conversation, followed by a walk together (maybe in a park).  Then out to a coffeeshop or lounge for some more quiet, getting-to-know-you time.

    Vote for Dan here.

  • The Gay Bachelor: Round 2 Winner!!!

    The people have spoken! The second round of The Gay Bachelor just ended a few minutes ago, and the people’s pick was Ryan Scarola! Now, the real question for Sammy is, will he choose the community’s choice or go with someone else he already has in mind?

    Remember, on top of the already extraordinary weekend (romantic dinner, spa treatment, sightseeing, etc.) if Sammy chooses Ryan the happy couple will also receive:

    -a $250 shopping spree.

    -a personal driver to take them around Manhattan for the weekend.

    Not a bad deal, right?

    Will Sammy choose Ryan or go with someone else? Find out tomorrow when fabulis reveals The Gay Bachelor Winners!

  • The Gay Bachelor: Eric Turner

    Why should Sammy pick you?

    Sammy should pick me because I think I would treat this opportunity as a real date — a real chance. I’d be fun and adventurous, but above all else, I would be real and see how this moment would play out.

    Vote for Eric here.

  • The Gay Bachelor: Round 2!!!

    The second round of The Gay Bachelor has begun! You could win a romantic weekend with our first round’s winner, Sammy Crawford! Wanna be part of a romantic weekend in New York? Join Sammy as you and him see the sights of the city, have a romantic dinner and so much more!

    You just have to answer one question:

    Why should Sammy pick you?

    Email your answer (or your video answer) to christopher@fabulis.com along with your fabulis url and pic! 

    Click here for more information. 

  • The Gay Bachelor: Round 1 Winner!!!

    A HUGE CONGRATULATIONS is in call for Sammy Crawford who is our newly crowned Gay Bachelor for Round 1!!!

    Everyone played a great game, you put in a lot of bits and made the Gay Bachelor a really tight race.

    This part of the Gay Bachelor is closed, but the game is far from over! Keep your eyes peeled in the coming days for Gay Bachelor Round 2 where you too could win a chance to have a romantic weekend in New York!

  • The Gay Bachelor: Eric Turner

    Why should you be The Gay Bachelor?

    Because gods know, if I can’t get a date for myself by myself by now, I need all the help I can get!


     What do you look for in other guys?

    A billion giga-watt smile, intelligence (geek is the new sexy), wit, humor, an incredible amount of patience and an undying sense of adventure.


     What is your idea of a dream first date?

    Bright lights, big city…sharing an experience together that we won’t forget. Being able to be comfortable with one another so that we can just talk like we’ve known each other forever. 

    Vote for Eric here.